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A Battle for friendship 15/05/2020

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This thread in my inbox goes back 13 years

A request from a friend sits at the top of the list

The one I met at uni which we’ve fallen out since

Asking for advice and you are trying to help

A few random hi’s and a few sharp hellos

Until I was at crisis and somehow you knew

We’ve had lovely deep chats over these years

You’ve been like a teacher and showing me ways

I was afraid to move on and have one of my own

You went on before me against all of the norm

Then messaged me soon as your little one came

Even though your thumb was in terrible pain

You checked on my work and we compared a few stories

My change of career and I spoke of my glories

I saw you content. Filled with utter most joy

I’d seen lots of pictures with you and your boy

It did make me question what I’m missing in life

When I thought I was happy just being a wife

So a boy I too had, that came with a price

Although never natural, as there was a device

You held my hand through as I struggled along

Every day was a battle as he hung on my thong

Then it all went quiet for 5 years or more

I got pretty busy finding mores I adore

Until last year when I suddenly shook

I pondered for a while if I was in your bad book

You were never quite gone, there was a line or a like

And a comment from me when you went for a hike

We picked up a little when you were higher than clouds

A beautiful picture of a lift on the rise

I missed our old chats so I checked out the thread

A revelation arrived that filled me with dread

Your misses she hates me am I friend, or a foe?

Why am I here and needing to know?

So we talked and we talked and we’ve finally arrived

It’s been a long journey as I cried and we smiled

Why did it take us so many years?

For us to face the darkest fears?

A Wonder you said seem to have us on hold

We examined all that’s been with a very fine comb

It’s my turn to give, there is nothing to hold

If you need me I’m here, no longer controlled

Just give me a shout, I‘ve done it before

My career was pending when there wasn't a cure

I went through all sorts and it took me a while

Where there’s a will there’s way, I want you to smile







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I write about my struggles as a mum of a highly sensitive child and dealing with the education system. Our fights over 10 years with the  broken system, who were   determined to label him Autistic and how I managed to combat this. My journey as a migrant from a mixed marriage who lived through one war and chose her maternal country in the end in pursuit of happiness.

 

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