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The Girl I Never Had

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This embryo that sits in the freezer

Will I ever meet her?

Will she call me mum?

Or will I go to all that trouble and she’ll be gone

The operation that must be had

Only because they shut the hospitals down

If the Crawley maternity ward was still open

Would I have been slit in two?

Would I have panicked for months on end

Knowing that a drive of 30 miles

And being a geriatric mother could cost him his life

Would I have chosen to give birth naturally?

Or would I have elected to go under the knife?

The drive of a hundred miles to have undone how my body had healed

After they cut me three layers deep

When I even missed out on the kiss he was blowing me

As I held him for the first time

I even missed out seeing that kiss a few days after he arrived

As I was pumped with drugs

And I happily posted on my Facebook

And a friend, I hadn’t seen for years celebrated his arrival

Needless did she know I was crying from the inside

How the hospital abandoned me after I was pumped with morphine for days on end

How that trolley was so heavy

As I carried myself and my baby through those heavy double doors

How I had no strength to stand aside and pull that door open so I could go outside

As I pushed what felt like a fish tank containing the jewel I had given birth to

One that did not come naturally and was placed inside

How could I bond with that baby? I thought to myself

Did I really know what I was doing?

What was going to become of my life?

I must have been misguided for giving them a second chance

How could I have been so foolish?

After all, what had I seen after giving my all?

Must I celebrate this strife?


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I write about my struggles as a mum of a highly sensitive child and dealing with the education system. Our fights over 10 years with the  broken system, who were   determined to label him Autistic and how I managed to combat this. My journey as a migrant from a mixed marriage who lived through one war and chose her maternal country in the end in pursuit of happiness.

 

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