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When they bring their work home 21/04/2020

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Updated: Sep 7, 2022




How do you think I earn your keep

So that you can have all of this stuff?


I have to be up there to keep it going

Won’t you stop bending my ear?



Who do you think was up all night

So that you could be sound asleep?


Tell me my dear who makes your bed

who irons all of your shirts?


I hoover the floor and rub down each door

And I’ve painted and plastered around



I gave up my career for you to be boss

As I was cheering you on



Remember why you have a career

And married with wife and a son


How do you think you even have a son

Must I go on and on?.......




Oh you’re still here tell, me this .who stocks up food in this fridge?

The one you polish every day, isn’t it shiny and clear?


You empty the bins and do the odd bath, I’m grateful every day of the year

But I cut the grass and I knock down walls


As you sit down with a beer.




You earn the money but I pay the bills

Take care of them as they arrive


And I pay them still when their due date comes

And whether they’re pennies or pound



I won’t be put down, this is isn’t you, where has this anger come from?

You said you were 6 hours ahead of schedule, let’s take a spin round the town.


I don’t really t want to be part of that list. we married for love, and can’t part

now have a kid who needs us both , perhaps take a breath and calm down.



I’m sorry my queen for I didn’t mean it, I know you’re the star of the show

I’m always here and on my knees now, forgive me for you wear the crown



It takes a strong man to keep a strong woman,

and I’m the one ironing your shorts


And I do it with love like I cook every day

Amongst my friends I am renowned





Conclusion. Sometimes we allow work to take over but it's good to stop and ask the right questions and remember who we are doing it for and why.



Shall I change the title to not always a bed of roses, or perhaps


Why do we think chocolate and cut flowers is the answer to all of our problems? Why am I saying this? Because it's good to communicate and express ourselves. Let the other know how we are feeling. Nipping in the bud so we don't feel we need flowers to patch things up. Patching cracks are only delaying the inevitable and we don't want to leave it too late.




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I write about my struggles as a mum of a highly sensitive child and dealing with the education system. Our fights over 10 years with the  broken system, who were   determined to label him Autistic and how I managed to combat this. My journey as a migrant from a mixed marriage who lived through one war and chose her maternal country in the end in pursuit of happiness.

 

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